Raised in Spain, Rooted in Us
A mother reflects on raising her eldest son between two worlds: shaped by Spain, rooted in family, and learning to belong without losing who he is.
Finding My Voice in Another Language
A heartfelt reflection on learning Spanish, raising bilingual children, and finding the courage to speak imperfectly while building connection, identity, and belonging abroad.
Different Forms, One Root
Racism does not always look the same. In Spain, I’ve experienced it in ways that are both subtle and direct, shaped by culture, perception, and silence. This reflection explores the layers of racism, the difference between discrimination and dehumanization, and why honest conversations still matter.
When Two Celebrations Share the Same Day
Two cultures. One day. When Black History Month and Día de Andalucía unexpectedly align, a reflection on pride, identity, and the beauty of cultural coexistence in southern Spain.
When Tradition Hurts: A Black Mother’s Perspective on Blackface in Spain
This article is not written to attack or shame. It is written to explain why a long-standing tradition can feel painful to Black families living in Spain, and to invite reflection, empathy, and respect in a changing society.
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The Snow We Carry Inside Us
There’s something magical about the way children express themselves through art. They don’t calculate, overthink, or filter. They paint, draw, color, and create straight from the heart. So when HBU asked my children to contribute Christmas drawings this year, I was curious to see what their imaginations would choose. And without discussing it, without influencing
Spain’s Tourism Issue Through the Eyes of a Legal Immigrant
“Tourism isn’t the enemy. But greed, poor planning, and a lack of protection for local residents are.”
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Becoming 39: A Life Etched in Grace
“The wrinkles, the scars, the mental and physical stretch marks. I wear them like medals. They remind me of the life I’ve lived and the grace that’s carried me through.”
Blending Cultures: Black History Month and El Día de Andalucía
While Black History Month is a cornerstone of our Black American identity, highlighting the struggles, triumphs, and contributions of our ancestors, El Día de Andalucía allows us to connect with the deep-rooted traditions of southern Spain, our home away from home.
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Celebrating Black History Month in Spain: 2025 Edition
“By hosting this year’s BBQ at home, we’re not just celebrating; we’re sharing.”
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